Sarah Savage
Are You a Boy or Are You a Girl?
Ages 3–8
Are You a Boy or Are You a Girl? by Sarah Savage — a thoughtfully chosen inclusive book for young readers.
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Why this book
Keep this on the shelf like it belongs there, because it does.
Who it's for
Ages 3-8. Rainbow families, gender-curious kids, anyone stocking a shelf that is not a debate.
Conversation starter
How did someone in this story show who they are? Who stood with them?
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How we write these notes
Pair with
Two titles that deepen the same conversation.

Ages 3–8
10,000 dressesMarcus Ewert
Every night, Bailey dreams about magical dresses: dresses made of crystals and rainbows, dresses made of flowers, dresses made of windows. . . . Unfortunately, when Bailey's awake, no one wants to hear about these beautiful dreams. Quite the contrary. "You're a BOY!" Mother and Father tell Bailey. "You shouldn't be thinking about dresses at all." Then Bailey meets Laurel, an older girl who is touched and inspired by Bailey's imagination and courage. In friendship, the two of them begin making dresses together. And Bailey's dreams come true!

Ages 3–8
Introducing TeddyJessica Walton
What matters is that you are my friend.' A sweet and gentle story about being true to yourself and being a good friend, Introducing Teddy can also help children understand gender identity.